How do I know when it is time to end a relationship?

Think about whether you feel respected, safe and understood most of the time, whether the same problems keep returning despite honest talks, and whether you still want the same future. Persistent fear, control or contempt are strong reasons to leave. Talk to a trusted friend or counsellor before deciding.

Ask whether you respect each other, share core values about family, money and children, and can talk about hard topics. See how they treat others and handle stress. Spend time in different situations. Talk to people who know you both well.