How do I reply to someone I am not interested in?
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Be kind and clear: "Thank you for your message. I do not feel we are a match, and I wish you well." A short honest reply is better than silence. Block if they do not respect it.
Do not feel guilty for saying no. Respect your own time and theirs.
Think about what the lie was, how often it happens and whether they admit it. A single lie told out of fear, followed by honesty, can be repaired. A pattern of lying is harder. Forgiving is a feeling you can choose, while trusting again depends on their behaviour.
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