He is recovering, but he worries about everything and asks me to do the driving, planning and decisions. I am tired and also afraid, but I cannot show it. I have no one to talk to.
Be the first to rate Rate it →Relatives mention friends' bigger houses, richer gifts and faster promotions. My wife says to ignore it, but I notice that it affects her mood. I do not want to let others decide how we feel about our life.
Be the first to rate Rate it →He happily gives to friends and relatives, but when I suggest repairing the kitchen or buying a new mattress, he says it is not necessary. I feel that our own comfort comes last.
Be the first to rate Rate it →He says it lightly in front of friends. I laugh along, but I feel it is a comment on my role. I do not want to make a scene, but I would like him to stop.
Be the first to rate Rate it →The friend is kind, but she comments on how I should behave. My wife repeats those comments in arguments. I have asked my wife to keep our matters private, and she says her friend only cares.
Be the first to rate Rate it →She says they drink too much and talk about things she does not enjoy. I meet them twice a month. I do not want to lose them, but I do not want her to feel excluded.
Be the first to rate Rate it →We managed the house, the children and the bills well. But conversations were all tasks. One evening my husband asked if I was happy. I did not know how to answer. We started a short walk every evening and it h…
Be the first to rate Rate it →He forgets appointments, I forget to tell him, and we blame each other. It is never a big thing, but the tension builds. We have tried reminders and lists, and still it keeps happening.
Be the first to rate Rate it →His parents and sister are kind, but I cannot relax in my own home. I cannot talk freely on the phone or be alone with my husband. When I asked about a separate flat, he said it would hurt his parents.
Be the first to rate Rate it →She manages the bank accounts, investments and bills. She is good at it and I appreciate it. But last week I realised I could not answer a simple question about our finances if something happened to her. When I…
Be the first to rate Rate it →She has a good idea and a plan. I want to support her, but I worry about the loan and about security. She says if I do not believe in her, no one will.
Be the first to rate Rate it →Socks, towels, cups. He apologises and then repeats it. It is a small thing but it makes me feel like I am his parent. I do not want to nag.
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