I lent my brother my wedding savings. Now he says I should be glad to help family and stop bringing it up.

My brother's business needed money urgently, and I gave him almost all the savings meant for my wedding. He promised to repay within six months. It has been fourteen.

When I asked, he said I was making family feel like a bank. My parents agree with him, and say he is going through a hard time.

My fiancée does not know the full amount. I have been postponing the date with excuses. I love my brother, but I feel like the only one in the family who is expected to lose.