How do we manage when one of us wants to move cities for a job?

Discuss goals, finances and how the move affects each person's career and support network. Consider trial periods, remote work or taking turns in who leads decisions. A good plan makes both people feel heard.

Try this: 1) Write what each job move means for money, growth and family. 2) Test it, such as living there for three months or working remotely. 3) If you move, agree the next move belongs to the other partner.