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πŸ’Ό Work Anonymous 7 Oct 2026 Β· 2,672 reads

My manager presented my project as his own, so I replied-all with the original file and timestamps.

I spent six weeks building a cost-saving analysis. I sent it to my manager to review. Two days later he presented it to the leadership team as 'something I've been working on', with my slides, his name on the cover.

A director emailed the whole department congratulating him. I replied-all: 'Thanks for the kind words about the analysis. Attaching the original version I shared with [manager] on the 3rd, in case anyone wants the full working file.' With the file showing my name as the author.

It was polite. But everyone understood. HR has now asked to 'have a chat' with both of us and my manager isn't speaking to me.

Was the reply-all wrong?

4 opinions

Sam β˜… Best Reaction 7 Oct 2026

That was the most professional revenge I've ever read. You didn't accuse anyone. You just attached the truth.

Anonymous 7 Oct 2026

Right outcome, risky method. Next time also email the director directly first. Reply-all makes HR nervous.

Lena 7 Oct 2026

He stole six weeks of your work. HR should be chatting with HIM.

Nikhil 7 Oct 2026

Public embarrassment burns bridges. Even if he deserved it, now you're 'the difficult one'.

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🧠 Psychology lens

A manager presented an employee's analysis as his own, and the employee answered publicly with proof, which settled the credit but may have strained trust.

The author may be feeling

May feel angry and invisible after weeks of work, and relieved to set the record straight.

The other side may be seeing

The manager may feel exposed and defensive, and colleagues may worry about speaking up.

Psychology ideas that may apply

Equity theory J. Stacy Adams, 1963

People want what they give and what they get to feel fair, and unfairness is stressful.

Here: Credit is part of what people feel they are owed for their effort.

Self-serving bias Miller & Ross, 1975

We take credit when things go well and blame circumstances or other people when they do not.

Here: Taking credit for a good result is a common way people protect their image.

πŸ’‘ Raising it privately first, with dates, often gets credit corrected without turning someone into an enemy.

Written by AI from one person's account, using well-known psychology ideas for reflection. It is not a diagnosis or advice, and it can be wrong.

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