How do I talk to my teenager about difficult topics?

Choose a calm time, listen more than you speak and avoid lecturing. Ask open questions, stay honest and respect their privacy where it is safe. Show that you can stay calm so they come to you when they need help.

Try this: 1) Choose a car ride or walk rather than a sit-down talk. 2) Ask one open question and listen without correcting. 3) Share a story of your own mistake. Short, calm talks work best.